I’ve already posted about this on social media and on LDNBS.org but it felt necessary to also include it here because this is a monumental day. Today Pennsylvania became the … Continue reading Act 133 of 2020: Implemented!
Category: Tori’s Bucket List
We Have Time
Our boys are sixteen months old now. They walk everywhere, they love being outside, and they love experiencing new things.
Most of the time I feel as though we have struck a great balance between being home and going out to do things, but some days I feel this pressure to do everything. If I find out we have to miss some event or function, I feel like they are missing out. I feel pressure.
This isn’t a pressure induced by social media, however. Yesterday I realized that it’s because all I’ve ever known as a parent is limited time. A deadline. A looming end point and the danger of permanent regret.
With Tori, we had less than two years to try to give her all the experiences we could manage. Krabbe robbed us of time. Krabbe made us feel rushed. We did things she was far too young to appreciate because there was pressure. We didn’t have time to waste. We didn’t want to have any regrets for her, or for us as a family. And, thankfully, we don’t.
Yet, I have to stop and remember that, Lord willing, we have time with the twins. We don’t have to do everything right now, and we don’t have to be disappointed if we don’t take them everywhere to do it all at this age. They don’t know what they’re missing, and if they are happy, that is all that matters. We have the freedom to wait until they can better appreciate whatever it is we want them to see/experience.
I’m praying that my heart can rest in that hopeful knowledge, that I can be better at just taking one day at a time, one moment at a time, and providing the boys with a well-balanced life. Rest is equally as important as stimulation and experiences, and I pray that we as parents will have the wisdom to do what is best.
I’m so thankful for this gift of time.
Isaiah and Caleb’s Adventure List: Build-A-Bear
When we started to create a “bucket list” for Tori, we knew time was short. We knew we had to cram as much into her limited days on earth as … Continue reading Isaiah and Caleb’s Adventure List: Build-A-Bear
When Jordan Hill Visited…
Somehow we neglected to post on this blog about our visit from Jordan Hill of the Seattle Seahawks in April! I was reminded of this when our story appeared on … Continue reading When Jordan Hill Visited…
Tori’s Bucket List: Sleepover
We decided to retroactively add this to Tori’s Bucket List because the sweet moment occurred before we created her List. We had hoped to recreate this one with even more … Continue reading Tori’s Bucket List: Sleepover
Tori’s Bucket List: Find Easter Eggs
Though finding eggs has nothing to do with the reason we celebrate Easter (the Resurrection of Jesus), it is a fun activity for children to do. It was a fun … Continue reading Tori’s Bucket List: Find Easter Eggs
Tori’s Bucket List: Jump in a Puddle
One of the greatest childhood joys is jumping in puddles. It’s as if there is a magnet pulling kids toward puddles and they just have to play in them! So, … Continue reading Tori’s Bucket List: Jump in a Puddle
Tori’s Bucket List: Attend a Tea Party
When Wendy Myers first asked me if Tori would like to attend a tea party, I imagined a small, simple gathering in a living room or backyard. Never would I … Continue reading Tori’s Bucket List: Attend a Tea Party
Tori’s Bucket List: Join a Hockey Team
We were recently contacted by a woman whose daughter plays for one of the Hershey Jr. Bears hockey teams. She was touched by Tori’s story and said they really wanted … Continue reading Tori’s Bucket List: Join a Hockey Team
Tori’s Bucket List: Wear Mama’s Wedding Dress
Some of the items we have added to Tori’s Bucket List were inspired by the lists of her Krabbe buddies. This one was first done by Anniston, and when I … Continue reading Tori’s Bucket List: Wear Mama’s Wedding Dress