Ponderings

Kindling and Firebreaks

Like wildfire,apathy rarely arrivesunprovoked.The conditions develop over time:a long drought,an atmosphere heavywith things left to smolder.Every word spoken,or deeply neglected,is a match dropped in dry wood.Every moment of unworthinessdries out the forest floor.The kindling screams for attention,then falls silent,allowing the fire to burn.Whether wild or…

Avoidance Dressed Up as Acceptance

Over the weekend, I came across this quote on Threads: “That’s just how they are” is not a solution. It’s avoidance dressed up as acceptance. – Dr. Tracy Dalgleish It’s a hauntingly accurate description of a trap many of us fall into. How often do…

Vera Ruth Eskridge (1934-2026)

Some of my earliest memories are with Grandma Ruth. Growing up just four houses down the street, my childhood was defined by her presence. I remember the ease of walking to her house whenever I wanted, the many days spent together after school, and the…

The Roads We Travel

In A Brighter Blueprint, I reference this famous poem by Robert Frost: Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,And sorry I could not travel bothAnd be one traveler, long I stoodAnd looked down one as far as I couldTo where it bent in the undergrowth;…

Ten Years Since I Last Held You

A Note for Tori I cannot believe it’s been ten years since I last held you. I hope you know how much we love you. You’d love your little brothers (at least I think you would, but they’d probably annoy you as all siblings do).…

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