Ponderings

Avoidance Dressed Up as Acceptance

Over the weekend, I came across this quote on Threads: “That’s just how they are” is not a solution. It’s avoidance dressed up as acceptance. – Dr. Tracy Dalgleish It’s a hauntingly accurate description of a trap many of us fall into. How often do…

Vera Ruth Eskridge (1934-2026)

Some of my earliest memories are with Grandma Ruth. Growing up just four houses down the street, my childhood was defined by her presence. I remember the ease of walking to her house whenever I wanted, the many days spent together after school, and the…

The Roads We Travel

In A Brighter Blueprint, I reference this famous poem by Robert Frost: Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,And sorry I could not travel bothAnd be one traveler, long I stoodAnd looked down one as far as I couldTo where it bent in the undergrowth;…

Ten Years Since I Last Held You

A Note for Tori I cannot believe it’s been ten years since I last held you. I hope you know how much we love you. You’d love your little brothers (at least I think you would, but they’d probably annoy you as all siblings do).…

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My new book, A Brighter Blueprint: The Twelve Threads of Effective Advocacy, launches in just three days! Every preorder will receive not only a signed copy, but also a small gift from me to thank you for your support! Place your preorders before 11:59pm on…

Twenty-One Days to Go

In just three weeks, A Brighter Blueprint: The Twelve Threads of Effective Advocacy will be here! My team helped me create this short promo video – it would be so helpful if you could share it with people you know!

The Tenth Year: From a Monument to a Map

Ten years. In thirty-one days, on March 27th, we will mark a decade since we said goodbye to Tori. For 3,652 days, I have lived in the “if onlys.” If only we had known. If only she had been screened at birth. If only the…

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